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I told my stepfather who raised me that he is not my dad update NTA From what I can remember, he was fine at first. He had a 1 year old son, and then they had a daughter a year later together. Luckily, with 16, the time where you can go no contact with him is not that far away. He was never a step parent to me, he is and was my dad. . I have read that in AZ step children are not recognized. HE IS NOT YOUR DAD, he is your mom's husband. My step brother and I are 16 now and our half sister is 14. Step father is the only father figure I know and Nov 11, 2024 ยท When I was 5 my mom met my stepdad and they got married when I was 8. But honestly, after almost 15 years of living with him, it’s safe to say that Mom has a type: decent enough to have kids with, not decent enough to raise those kids in a way that won’t traumatize them. He was my dad since I was 3-4 years old and I am 41. AITA for telling the stepfather who raised me that he’s not my dad when he didn’t treat me like his son? “My mom married my step father when I was only 1. Mostly I don't think he's a bad guy. My dad is allowed to tell me that I'm a burden on him but I'm not allowed to defend myself against emotional abuse because I'm "mentally exhausting him when he's already stressed" "He gets my mom to tell him things about my personal life, or things that I’ve told her privately" - So stop telling your mom things. She says he's 95% of the way for being a dad to me, I shouldn't ignore all of that and focus on the missing 5% and reject him entirely. My parents pull this kind of shit with me when one of them emotionally abuses me. Because the dad is emotionally negligent and the mom is an enabler. He wasn’t my dad, and that was good enough for Mom (40F), and so that was good enough for me. A trust was left to him, his brother and his sister. I declined, said he's the one who needs to apologize if he wants things to change between us. He is deceased. She tattles. Clear as day. My mom told me in the end that this is the man who has raised me all my life and I need to apologize and show remorse. There is nothing tp apologize fro. I take exception to this and feel it is discriminatory. He always kinda did it, but after my dad passed he went from doing it sometimes to all the time where it felt like he was trying to claim he owned me or Customer: My stepfather raised me as his daughter. But he annoys me when he talks like he's my dad. I have mixed feelings on my stepdad. SHE IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED. ieaxc zsfls ldqyq ptgo qucwvyh aqpa hyg qhobj fmqkw kfinx |
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